Being SUPER RELAXED

[ridiculousbeast]

What's good gents,

So in case some of the four people who are still active here missed my two first posts: I used to write here under Benson a few years ago but stopped. I ended up doing pickup 10 hours per day, every day. Became pretty good and had some super intense realisations about game. I then logged on here for old time's sake and found a dead community. So I figured i'll do my best to ignite some of that old spark that we used to have here. I don't know why I care really, I am very active on social media and discuss game there. But I feel like it was here (the swedish community, not CL specifically) it all started. I want to feel that cozy nostalgia when I log on here. I want weird asperger people like Aplay to have retarded hyper complex theories about threesomes when he still struggles with getting a flaky phone number (hope your killing it now if you're still active dude), I want to see Alex (C-R) write about hipster philosophies, I want Valle to continue "In the mind of EvilValle", I want Godsgift to write about tantra, strippers and pornstars. I want the community to awake again. So here goes, I'll write articles and answer questions as much as I can in my very limited spare time. Let's see what happens.

So as my first post I'll be ranting a little about a concept that had the biggest impact on me. As usual it came from Valle. But apparently the article was delted by C-R fagatrons and can't be recovered so that's why I think this is really important.

MEGA RELAXED, NEXT LEVEL OF GAME
Alright dudes, here's a quick backstory and what I still remember from the original article by mr. evilfag.

Oh and I write in english because I've been speaking english 24/7 for the past year and a half and also have an english keyboard. Feel free to respond in Swedish.

So Valle was describing how he ahd taken Crack or DMAA or some other crazy per workout shit and hit the gym. He had taken a whole bunch too much I believe and got super fucking high. Just felt extremely woozy goozy and was just enjoying lifting some weights. Super hot chick nearby was staring "discretely" all the time apparently. He then sat down on a bench to rest. She then came up and asked some dumb questions and/or sat down next to him or something. He hardly even looked at her because he was feeling crazy good and didn't want to pa attention to anything else than feeling good.
Not sure what happened later but then he left the gym. Went home. All the way home chicks were staring like crazy after the crack head. Blablabla story goes on. Moral of the story: Super crazy fucking mega relaxed leads to crazy success with the ladies.

There was always something about this particular article that fascinated me. It resonated with me on a deep level. I'm not a very talkative person. In social settings I usually get pretty quiet. I find it energy draining to talk. If I entertain a group for 20-30 minutes I barely speak for the next hour. I always thought this would be perfect for my personality. I tried to make this work. A lot. And I had some very interesting experiences trying this out and I can say that today I am 100% sure that this is the holy grail of pickup (combined with a super dominant , hyper sexual vibe). I can get into why I believe this later but let's start with some stories first.

Alright so let's start with some experiences I had before it all "clicked". Before I was really confident and had a vibe that naturally attracted chicks. I think that's important because that shows you how powerful this really is.

Example #1: Cafe opera
I was a chode still. I was Benson still. Before I became the ridiculousbeast. I was going out 20+ times per month. I was obsessed. I did meditation, gym, weighed everything I ate, drank veggie juice every morning, watched all the amazing new content from rsd , read everything on PU forums, read Swingcat, Mystery, watched the blueprint, I studied the body language of cool celebrities when they appeared on talk shows, I practice game in front of a camera, I wrote FRs, I did EVERYTHING.
I got laid 1-3 times per month. Not good, not good at all. But I did start to see things change. It was small changes and in game "winner takes all", I knew that, so I was patient, but frustrated Very, very frustrated.
So one night, a Wednesday, I went out alone like so many times before. (That's what happens when Godsgift, Seaturtle and BigDaddy all bail the same night).
It's an event of some sort. One of those events you only really run into in Sweden (as I later learnt). Packed with 18-20 year old tight little pussies roaming around in the club. Not sure what the event was really, but some weird shit. 65% chicks. All hot af too. And I was a lonely little chode. So I did what any little chode ought to do in a situation like this:
I found the darkest, coldest little corner I could and just stood there.

Not really, but almost.
I decided to go to the bar and just stand there and meditate. I was a little RSD brainwashed back then and thought meditation was cooler than it it. I don't think meditation every morning makes your game in the club better, but I did stumble on something else though.
First, people were walking into me. Getting annoyed over me standing in their way. Or surprised, becuase they often didn't even see me until they bumped into me.
I decided to persevere. I knew I wouldnt be able to approach right now so I challenged myself to stand there until I became completely fine with everything in the situation. Until I let go of all noise in my head "is this weird?" "do girls think im low value because im on my own?" "will anybody call me out on doing PU?" etc etc

Eventually these thoughts stopped screaming in my head. I became somewhat calm and relaxed. Something interesting happened.
People started to walk around me now. They all noticed me, even people that just got to the bar and hadn't already bumped into me and laughed at the weirdo in the bar with their friends. They really got out of their way to not bump into me. They would wait and let other people pass before sneaking around me. No one squeezed in between me and someone else.

I noticed this. Surprised, yet fascinated, I decided to see what will happen if I keep going a little more. And shit got interesting.
I eventually became very very "present". I could feel my entire body simultaneously. Everything relaxed. My breathed deepened and slowed down. My gaze became extremely stable and purposeful. I got a smirk on my face. I knew what had happened. I smiled because I knew that I had entered something I had been trying to enter for years. "That state". That state where everything clicks.
But nothing could've prepared me for what was about to happen next.
It felt like every chick in the club started to look at me. Every guy who walked by stopped and said hello, shaked my hand and asked me how my night was going.

This felt crazy. "Let's move around and see what happens".
So I went outside to the little smoking area. Took out a cigarette and asked a girl for a lighter. The two girls I asked were really fucking gorgeous, they even stood out from the crowd on a night like this. Both lit up like crazy when I asked.
Me: "Excuse me?"
Them: "YES???" *smiling from ear-to-ear, turning bodies completely towards me. (WTF chill)
Me:"Can I borrow a lighter?"
Them: "OF COURSE"
Me: "Thanks"
*Light cigarette, give back and go lean against a railing*
10 sec go by

Them: "Ehm...excuse me...are you from Gothenburg?"
Me: "Yeah?"
Them: "OMG blablablabla"

They keep talking at me for like 2 min and then the friend of the hotter one says: "She has never made out with a guy form Gothenburg"
"Let's make it happen then"


This went on for a little while until I realised what the fuck was about to go down and I reverted back into Beta McChode out of nervousness and lost the girls.
This was kind of crazy. I had never made out with girl that hot before, this was probably my first ever "stunner" and I had never been stared down by so many girls simultaneously before.

Example #2 When it all clicked
I had more experiences like the previous one but I don't need to go over them any more. You get the point from the first one.
But here is how it all clicked, and became a permanent part of my personality.
I had a gf. She was cute, great energy, great chemistry, amazing sex. I was in love. But I couldn't get PU out of my head. I knew I wasn't done with PU. I wasn't satisfied. So I kept gaming and cheated a bit. Not good. Felt wrong. I also started to get pretty good. I really wanted to see what was possible if I let her go and went back into hardcore PU mode again. Broke up with her and got really upset. I kind of broke my own heart. It took a lot of willpower to do that. Easily the hardest thing I've ever done in my life so far.
Went out to the club after having cried for a few hours at home. Crazy depressed. Decided I would only do one thing tonight: Build my character. I cannot get any success in this state so I'm just gonna open the sets that scare me and let the chips fall where they may. Don't have the energy or motivation to run proper game. I'm just gonna open direct and then stand there. Not try anything. Not at all. If they dont like me that's fine, I don't care (should've been a clue right here that this night would not be a failure, but anyway). So part from opening direct I'm just gonna focus on keeping my emotions in check.
I focues on my solar plexus area, where most of my depression and DESPAIR was felt. I did everything I could to relax everything, it felt better that way.

and holy mother of god - it all came together

Sexual desire + Super relaxed/Congruent = ridiculousbeast was born


Long story short: Slept with my first legit STUNNER, followed by multiple others on a weekly basis. My brain re wired completely and my IDENTITY changed. I realised that I am a true alpha male. I am on top of the social hierarchy. Women chase me. Men want to befriend me. Bouncer greet me politely. Bartenders serve me first. Hostesses/waitresses flirt with me. I can open with anything. I get opened. Girls fuck me in the streets with people watching. Everything came together.

Learn how to relax both muscles and emotions. You want to become EMOTIONALLY AND PHYSICALLY RELAXED!! I cannot stress this enough. I will write a lot more about this. But I wanted to introduce the idea a little first before I go into depth about this. I also wanted to share some experiences to "sell" you guys on the idea.

Hope someone read this rant, not edited or anything. Very raw. Writing these article on my spare time so it is what it is.

Peace

[bachelor]

Alltså... Jag säger bara: keep em coming please!

[Pienso]

Fucking guld rakt igenom, minns så jävla väl den posten valle skrev då på CR. Riktigt bra jävla skit om att både få känslor och musklerna mer relaxed, aldrig tänkt på.

[ridiculousbeast]

Alltså... Jag säger bara: keep em coming please!

thanks man

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Fucking guld rakt igenom, minns så jävla väl den posten valle skrev då på CR. Riktigt bra jävla skit om att både få känslor och musklerna mer relaxed, aldrig tänkt på.

Thanks buddy, yeah the emotional relaxation is something I havent heard many people talk about. I think it's just as important as physical relaxation though.

[Willson]

thanks man

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Thanks buddy, yeah the emotional relaxation is something I havent heard many people talk about. I think it's just as important as physical relaxation though.

Bra skit mannen. Buddah möter Zyzz.

[ridiculousbeast]

Bra skit mannen. Buddah möter Zyzz.

haha
thanks dude

[Fiskarn]

I ended up doing pickup 10 hours per day, every day.

Något off-topic men hur såg ditt dagschema ut?

[ridiculousbeast]

Något off-topic men hur såg ditt dagschema ut?

wake up
shower
pack a bag of nuts and seeds
eat on bus
daygame 5 hours
home
eat
gym
home
pack bag of nuts and seeds
eat on bus
nightgame 5 hours
home

[StayHungry]

Jaha låter helt sjukt skulle vilja se dig in action s a s fattar inte hur fan det är möjligt. Säger inte att du ljuger men jag har iaf aldrig träffat en sån person i hela mitt liv.

"Girls fuck me in the streets with people watching."

Care to elaborate?