Guide to Roleplay, Dirty talking and Kinky shit!@ truestory

[TobiasK]

Intellectually: she wants to imagine things when she's getting fucked. She wants to engage her creativity and pretend you two are fucking on the Eiffel Tower, or in the woods, or on the roof of the building, she might even pretend Johnny Depp is fucking her, or she might want to fantasize that she's a hooker and getting banged in the alley. I am being serious. Read Nancy Friday’s book. Some girl may have fantasies about getting fucked by entire Miami Dolphins football team in the locker room. It’s just a fantasy, so chill.

I had a girl that pretended she was my mistress and I was cheating on my wife with her (I am not married). Some of the "fantasies" are out there, but it's ONLY PRETEND, ok!?


Physiologically: she wants to smell you. She wants to hear you whisper in her ear. She wants you to talk to her. She wants to feel her hormones drive her crazy. She wants to feel her orgasm.


All of those feelings are her biology.


Men have those feelings too. But, we, mostly, focus on physical and sometimes intellectual ones. Because we fantasize about shit and we like when that shit touches us. Rarely we think of emotional connection nor do we smell her or like her talking to us. At least we haven't discovered that those stimulations exist.


Let's play out some common fantasies most women find arousing.


- School girl and teacher - cliche, but fun to play. Good for beginners.


- French maid / cleaning girl - another cliche but again fun to play out. You can even tell your girlfriend "baby, I want you to clean around the house topless with no panties on in a skirt... and you might need to clean something else too afterwards " be playful but sound serious.
Some good lines to use during or after or before:
"you look so hot when you bend over"
"why don't you come over here....i want you to pick this up" drop something
"good girl...that's right...bend down ... right here..between my knees..i think you deserve a break from cleaning...and a little reward"
While she's cleaning, come from behind her, and violate her by finger her pussy and ass (if you're on that level).

- Stranger in the house - this is good for couples that have been experimenting with roleplay and want something new. Tell her to get naked and blind fold herself and leave the door open (right before you arrive). Walk into the door and head straight to the bedroom. If she starts talking "shhh" her gently...do not say a word. "Anonymity" is the kick of this fantasy. Slowly caress her as you undress yourself. (Just unzip your pants and pull them down). ...get her wet and bothered. Keep shushing her so she doesn't talk. Girls like control. Remember, it's play only. Start fucking her... (this can escalate into something else). Make her cum. Cum all over her and leave the room. Go to the other room or something.


- Strip tease / lap dance - Self explanatory. But you may need to tell her what you want. Sometimes it works best after you bought her something nice, like flowers. Say “now baby, i want you to do something for me.... I want you to striptease dance” plan an evening for it, bring wine/champagne and put down good music.
Stock lines:
"you look so hot when you swing your hips like this"
"why don't you come over her and show me this juicy pussy of yours"
"bend over....and shake it for me... i love it..."
"do i get a private lap dance?"
This fantasy is good for fun, that will naturally lead into sex... but you can put a spin in it with "you're not supposed to be doing this with your customers...don't you?"
and "what happens in the champagne room? " take her hand and lead her to the bedroom.

- Prostitute / Hooker - not something for new guys. But she wants to walk down the street, and you pick her up, take her to a motel and fuck her on the bed. You really have to use your imagination on this one. And something you should discuss with her. Don't tell her to be your hooker. Say "I think it would be soo fucking hot if we pretended that you're a high class prostitute and I was your client" Some girls might not like this fantasy, some would love it. If she's into this, play the part, do the role:
What such a good looking girl doing walking all by herself tonight?
Do you randomly get into strangers cars like this? (finger her pussy)
I know just the place. (this fantasy is amplified 100folds if it's in cheap motel)
(she can also give you blow job in the parking lot)


- Virgin - some girls like to pretend they are virgins. You can teach her how to please you. You REALLY have to know what you're doing, because she will pretend she doesn't. You can ask her sometime during normal conversation: "I like how we play ..I like pretending with you...when we do things to each other. I want to teach you how to please me...and you will be my virgin student. you will be innocent and wear what I will tell you...and I will show you how I like you on me"
-You are such a good student
-You're doing so well... take that cock in...stretch that virgin pussy/asshole/mouth
-Your pussy is dripping like you never had cock before...i cannot wait to break you in
-You look so innocent with your legs spread for me
let me help you with that.... you're a good girl aren't you? never had a dick in your mouth??
- Do your friends/parents know you're having sex with strange boys?
- You can't take that dick inside of you yet....you're too tight...your pussy needs to be stretched
- your moaning is soo hot, you are soo innocent and yet you're so sexy..i love stretching your tight hole.. you squeeze my cock good


- Slave (sex slave) - this is for more hardcore guys. You can tie her up and put a leash on her. She will act like your sex slave. She's there for your pleasure. She will do anything you want her to. THIS IS for certain types of girls and certain types of relationships. DO NOT try to go from vanilla sex to this shit. You will "freak her out".
-"You will be my little toy girl cunt tonight"
-I will fuck you as i please when i please, you are here to serve me, do you understand?
- spread your legs like a good slut, let me look at your pussy
- good girl, now come here and suck this cock
- Chock on it and slobber all over it like it's the last cock you suck
- You like getting fucked in your mouth don't you, you little broad?
- Bend your ass over this couch...that's good..now spread your ass cheeks and take this dick like a slut you are. good sex slave...please me with your tight ass/pussy
- you're here for my pleasure, only for my pleasure, i don't give a shit if you cum. i am using you to get off
- you want your mouth covered in my hot cum? like a good cum slut?
- swallow this ..everything until you choke...don't let a single drop out. understand?


- Rape and Struggle fantasy - be careful with this one, and it's best to discuss with the girl sometimes before you do it. Then don't try to do it for a week. But make sure there are no bad memories. I would be VERY careful with this one. MAKE sure she has nothing bad happened to her in childhood or in life that may trigger deja vue. Again some dirty lines to use:
"shut up you little cunt, you're getting fuck whether you want it or not"
- you are too tight, but i don't care, i will force myself in...you like that huh?
- you take it all, good girl good girl..now shut your slutty mouth and take it...get fucked...good girl... you deserve this dick inside of you
- oh what is that, hurts? this will hurt even more"
You can be pretty rough in this fantasy, of course, if she likes it. It would be even hotter if she could try to escape, struggle or run away. Some girls enjoy being gagged with duct tape or something wrapped around their mouth. maybe tie her to a bed post or tie her hands together....
Ripping her clothes off or apart magnifies this fantasy 100folds. But make sure it's nothing nice. Also getting her partially naked is better than undressing her. Pulling her pants down and keeping shirt on really plays on the fantasy. Also "raping" her on the stairs or in unusual places is more exciting.
BUT REMEMBER: rape is a crime. If she wants you to stop (SAFE WORD) stop.

- ANYTHING with blind fold and cuffs - again, this falls into the more serious category of play, but do not go for this right away. Introduce sex play one thing at a time.

blind fold is actually fun. In threesomes , or in group sex. But it can be used in regular sex. Often you can combine blind fold with other toys, like dildo, nipple clamp, vibrator, butt plug. etc.



There are a couple rules for guys.

Create a story. Once I dated a freaky girl and at some point in the relationships most of our sex was in form of some theatrical role-play. . Almost every time I had sex with my girlfriends we had some kind of sexy story behind it. So if you want her to get fucked bent over the couch, create a story how she's a naughty maid and she didn't clean the dishes after dinner and now she needs to be punished.

TALK ABOUT THOSE THINGS not when you're about to have sex. Do it during normal conversations about "us" (you two).

ALWAYS use "It would be soo hot if…" - remember all this shit is pretend. You play with her. You do not bring this into real life. But you talk about it during real life, when something triggers discussion, and you FRAME IT as play and only play.

BALANCE HOW YOU TREAT HER - do not just have disgraceful sex with her all the time. It's addictive, I know. But sometimes "make love to her" ...show her that it's ONLY play and you really appreciate her as a woman and as a person. Reassurance that you can return to ‘normal’ state after kinky sex will make her feel comfortable to engage in more kinky play. If she’s staying at your place, wake her up the next morning with you gently massaging her lower back, legs etc, in a sensual, but non-sexual way. Keep in mind you HAVE to appreciate her feminine side. Buy her flowers occasionally, show her how much you adore her, cook for her, or make her feel cared for. She will open up even faster to you.


FEEDBACK IS EVERYTHING - I ALWAYS talk to her several hours after we both cum (if we have energy) I always say "oh my god baby you were sooo hot when you did ____ and I almost came when you did ____" ALWAYS give positive feedback. NEVER criticize. She will tell you things she likes. This will guide you what kind of girl she is.


If she doesn't feel comfortable with what you're doing, step back. Move in slowly. If she feels awkward pretending to be a "naughty french maid” then she's probably self conscious. Take her out dancing, for few drinks, after, she will have an easier time letting go and talking naughty.


Literotica - 100% free sex stories, erotic audio, adult fiction with wifeslut, bdsm, etc! is a good resource for ideas: they have a bunch of free stories. READ them. I know, I know, boring shit, but most are (ones written by women) a good indication of what women find hot. You would be surprised.It's often NOT what guys typically find arousing or think would be arousing to a woman.

NEVER tell her or your friends about this shit

EVER!




Dirty Talk




INTRO

I did most of the introduction already, but here is how to get started.

ALWAYS start small.

You always have to go first and start by talking to her during sex.

If you don't know what to say, start by commenting on what you're going to do to her.
"I am going to kiss you slow...start with your neck...go down your chest, to your tits... to your nipples...lick them a little bit" (do as you say)


"I am going to suck on your nipple, then lick it and bite it. You look sooo hot laying down here like this"


Or if you're during the act, make comments on what you are enjoying:

"I love fucking you like this...you look soo hot when your tits bounce up and down"

(NOTE: do not use "boobies" or "kitty" or "butt" or anything cute in bed. Repeat these words after me: she has a pussy, not a vagina, and she has tits, her nipples are hard when she sees your big dick. Her asshole is tight for your long cock. Her mouth is there to suck your shaft and your head. Her tongue will lick your balls.
No penises. No vaginas. No anus. Those words are NOT sexy or dominant

Also do not be afraid to use the words: slut, whore, broad, cunt but *IN THE RIGHT CONTEXT*. I WILL EXPLAIN


Also tell her "your lips are so sexy, they will look so hot around my hard dick."

Some other words to use:
"You look so naughty and sexy on your knees. Your mouth works soo good up and down my dick"
"When you get fucked liked this, you are soo hot...you make me wanna cum"


ASK HER questions.

"Do you like to get fucked by me?"

She will be forced to talk.

"When I fuck your tight pussy how does it feel...?"

she might be apprehensive to talk at first, but keep fucking her, she will talk.

"when you're on top of me like this...I want you to tell me how much you want my dick deep inside of your tight little pussy?”