Att vänstra, eller inte vänstra.

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Förstår vad du menar. Som Paul Janka skriver:

"The domain of a long-term relationship belongs to the woman and her job is often to civilize her man – to change him – and she works on him in myriad, subtle ways. That’s why married men are, for the most part, docile and malleable. An exhausted husband has little energy to protest against his wife’s conniving. A more gracious way to put it is that married me are more civilized than single men. Perhaps, whatever that means. [...]

Keep in mind that “game” is a muscle that you must exercise. It’s not like riding a bike, a skill you’ll never lose. I know, because I lost a good amount of my rap while I was in a serious long-term relationship from summer ’05 to winter ’07. When I emerged, I was weak. I wasn’t useless because I’d cut my teeth here in NYC for three years, but I didn’t have the confidence, the sense of entitlement, the chutzpah that a successful player develops (and needs)."