Sexual desire, dominance & masculinity

[ridiculousbeast]

What's good hoes,

Thought I'd follow up my posts about relaxation and unplugging from validation with cultivating a sexual vibe/aura/energy/state/image/whatever the hell you want to call it.

It's a natural progression from my previous articles. First you relax, let go of people's expectations. Then you unplug from validation. You will get a lot of looks and attention. Now it's time to switch on sexually too. And this part is really my forte. This is what I like the best and something I do really really well. The reason I do it well is because i have spent the majority of my "pickup career" focusing on cultivating this part of my personality. I had some crazy natural friends who had this as a natural strength and I learnt from them.

1. Understand female sexuality
2. Don't judge it
3. Get sexually charged
4. Sexual conversation
5. Sexual sub-communication
6. Dirty talking





1. Understand female sexuality
Alright dudes so I think it's important to talk a little bit about how female sexuality is wired. I know everybody in the PU community more or less understand this to a certain degree. But I think it's a very limited understanding. I don't think most people here have explored/research this topic enough. The female sexuality is CRAZY. Like legit fucking ALL OUT LOCO! I'm not even kidding.
Just like the male by the way. It's not a judgement, I'm just saying it fucking kray-kray and it may freak you out when you start exploring this shit deeper.
So first of all, it loves to be dominated. But by dominated I don't mean "be alpha and make her suck your dick son".
I mean FULLY FUCKING SILVER-BACK-GORILLA-STYLE HELD-DOWN CHOKE GRIP SPAT IN THE FACE SOUL DESTROYING GANGSTER FUCKED.
There are many reasons to this and we can discuss a trillion different philosophical ideas as to why this is. That's not my job, I'm just telling you that it is fucking INTENSE and if you want stunners in your life you HAVE TO be able to handle this shit. You cannot be a church boy and pull stunners. They will test your congruence HARD, because if she is going to let you fuck her she needs to trust that you can handle her sexual nature. It's for men only, no boys, no pussies, no posers.


Read My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday if you want a fucking trip. That book opened my eyes. It's a book where women could anonymously contribute their sexual fantasies that they are too embarrassed to admit publicly.

It wants to be held down. It wants to be forced into extreme submission. It LOVES to be choked, fucked so hard that it hurts and called a worthless cum guzzling little whore.

Yeah, really.

Here's a disclaimer for potential retard cases: If a woman ever says no, wait, take it easier, don't do that it means STOP!!. It loves to be forced into submission but the human brain DOES NOT. Which is why we have ROLE PLAYING between CONSENTING ADULTS. We can pretend it's forced and live out fantasies that wouldn't be nice in real life.

Being fucked by the boss, dad, raped, gang banged etc are all very very common fantasies.

Women are also extremely fucking horny and EXTREMELY slutty. If you think women are sexually reserved it's because they are reserved around YOU. You aren't making them comfortable with being a slut.

Women are sexually turned on by two things:
* Men with so intense sexual desire that he can hardly keep himself from ravishing her. This is where rape fantasies are coming from (among other things).
* Men of higher social status. This is why they are attracted to their boss and


But before I move on a gotta bust a myth: You do not have to be the ultimate man to keep women from cheating.

2. Don't judge it
Women aren't going to be open about their sexuality with just anyone. Women get shamed for their sexuality. You need to show that you 1) KNOW how their sexuality works (crazy submissive and super horny) and 20 You DON'T JUDGE them for it.

These two aspects are extremely important to communicate in order to make a woman comfortable with you.

Not judging it is something you gotta be sure to communicate. Do it by talking about My Secret Garden for instance and let her know you think it sucks that women have to be anonymous because they'll be shamed otherwise. Talk about the hypocrisy in the society that men get high-fived and women get shamed for having many sex partners.
Ask her about hers, she probably won't admit to much at first. The tell her "that's a shame, I love helping women out with fulfilling fantasies, because I know how hard it is to find a guy who literally don't judge at all and also is capable of doing the role playing."
Then change subjects. Keep talking about you love helping women fulfill fantasies, you don't judge and you are very capable to do whatever it is they need.

Not judging her is extremely important. Don't neglect this.
If you have issues about this - get over it.



3. Get sexually charged
This is important. Crazy important. This makes you very masculine, your entire vibe will change. Women will feel sex "ooze" off you.
There's a lot of things you can do.
* No fap (ever)
* Watch porn on your way to the club/date to make yourself even more frustrated (i actually used to watch porn all the time)
* Make your own sex tapes
* Fantasize about fucking women you talk to
* Lift heavy weights
* High protein diet
* Maca, vitamin D, green juice, zma etc increase testosterone and therefor sex drive


I don't know if I really need to expand on this. It's been explained before. Women get very aroused from being sexually desire. I don't mean like the way a horny little 14 y/o wants to lose his virginity. I mean an intense, almost scary, sexual desire to completely ravish the woman.



4. Sexual conversation
Talk about sex. Make everything sexual.
Sexual misinterpretation (playfully pretend you misinterpret what people say and turn the conversation to sex)
"How long have you been here?"
"I just came"
"You just came? Omg that was FAST I havent even kissed you yet"

Sex stories
In a very nonchalant and relaxed way talk about sex. Don't make the point of the story be "i have had sex" but rather to illustrate another point.
"I hate when people get attached too fast" (good frame for fuck buddy relationship)
"yeah me too"
"Yeah some people are so creepy..it's like this one chick I met last year. We met at a festival and ended up sleeping and got super clingy...i hate that...so worth it though haha, she was fucking crazy, i'll give her one thing: she was great in bed. (say what she did that was good)"

Discuss My Secret Garden, 50 shades of grey etc (no explanation needed)
Sexual qualification
Just like any qualification. I hate stiff girls in bed. Are you stiff? Good. Are you adventurous? Good. What's your craziest sex story?


Just talk about sex. Talk about what you like and don't like. Get comfortable talking about sex at any time, anywhere.


5. Sexual sub-communication
This is an easy one. Basically slow and congruent non verbal communication does the trick.
Also physicality.
Extended eye contact while fantasising about sex



6. Dirty talking
Massive part of my game. Both during sex and in the club.
SOI (Statement Of Intent)
Very effective. Bold. Dominant.
"If it wasn't for all these people here I'd rip your clothes off and fuck you against the bar"

Stuff like that is great. But I like to escalate the level of boldness fast.

You can say anything, just be creative.
Tell her what you're going to do with her. Tell her you're gonna make her you're little cock slut. A cum guzzling little whore. etc etc. Just make sure to escalate over time and don't just blurt out some overly sexual shit that she isn't ready for.


7. BONUS TECHNIQUE
Put your leg in between hers. Pull her in hard. Then raise your heel up and down. This will massage her clit and make her crazy horny. Combine with dirty talk. May make her cum right then and there and start thinking about wtf you can do in the bedroom if you do this while talk with the clothes on. It also builds conspiracy. You and her know she just came. No one else. It creates a crazy strong connection.
I learnt this from a friend who has been dancing a lot and he figured this out while doing salsa or something. Don't remember really. He is in the community too but don't know his username in here. Props for this though man, this technique has given me and godsgift a lot of success lol.


I can go on about other shit too but I think I've covered most important shit right here. Combine with being a winner in life and practicing being very bold in life (boundaries, direct game, taking risks in business, gym, competing in sports etc) and you will be extremely dominant and masculine. Women are drawn to this vibe. Execute on this shit.