Any active newbies in here?

[StayHungry]

I am not a complete newbie i guess but i feel like one. I'm like bambi on ice at the moment. Which is kind of weird because I started this a long time ago but then I stopped for different reasons. I have a problem with dialogue, building attraction, picking up cues and escalating. The actual approach tho is usually no problem especially not in a club when I've had a few beers I will talk to anyone at any time anywhere but within a few seconds it usually just dissolves because she usually doesn't seem very interested and I can't come up with anything funny to say.