Julien Manifesto - Anteckningar

[Benson!]

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w65qBE-5fWg
Julien – Pick-up Manifesto
OPENING - The least important part of the game. It’s just throwing yourself into the situation
3 rules
• Lower the time of reaction – Open before thoughts start circulating, EVERYTHING WORKS. Follow desire IMMEDIATELY. STRAIGHT LINE – IN! RUN UP! BEFORE THOUGHTS POP UP. STRAIGHT LINE, MINIMIZE TIME. Go to the GIRL not the group, hook her, THEN greet the group.
• Calibrate AFTER the fact. Embrace imperfection. Do NOT wait for the situation to ease up. Don’t wait for them to pay for the drink, hang in the clothes, CALIBRATE AFTER, not before, don’t calibrate how to open before, just open and then calibrate.
Opening is learning how to deal with what happens after the fact.
• Set the frame when you approach. Immediately. Man-Woman frame. She has to know what’s up. Show your intentions. Let it be CLEAR that you are HORNY AS FUCK. Be shameless.
You set the frame by, 1. Being physical, no hands in the pockets. Find out how much you can escalate, always push, then calibrate. 2. Eye contact. Strong, stable, intense and sexual eye contact. 3. Breaking rapport tonality. Commanding & Challenging.

BUT
These are just ways to accentuate the vibe. But you CAN set the frame without it, but when learning, this is how to do it.

Be clear in your intent
Thoughts, words and actions ALIGNED.
Thinking, saying and doing without filter.
If I think of a joke, I SAY IT.
If I’m negative, I WILL BE NEGATIVE.
DO NOT FAKE YOUR MOOD.
Do not filter SHIT. Do not manage your impression.
It conveys that you are used to getting good reactions no matter how you present yourself.
Days I feel like an asshole – I’ll be an asshole
When I feel like a nice guy – I’m a nice guy
No girl needs to worry if I really am the way I present myself, when she tests me, she’ll find out that this is it. There is no fake shit going on.
What do I feel like saying? Do not hold back.
It creates shit loads of comfort.
People can now FULLY trust you. This is being yourself.
Present yourself authentically. SAY THE FUCKING JOKE.

Freedom of outcome
Let go of the outcome.
There will be elements of randomness, you can’t control everything, accept this, and let go of how things turn out.
Focus on what you CAN control – Expressing yourself authentically, do the best you can do. Let it go.
Be turned on by your own actions and not by other people’s reactions.
Get in the zone by following your own desires.
Criteria for success – Presenting yourself authentically, practicing radical honesty


Opening – Hook point
After a while you reach the hook point. It’s the REAL start of the conversation.
Opening is just “landing the plane”. When she has the anime eyes, quiet and attentive, no defense, she is ready to get to know you.
Sometimes: Smooth landing: “HEY!”  Anime eyes. DONE.
Other times: Rough landing: “HEY!”  Neutral/Negative reactions. START PLOWING WITHOUT EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENT.
Plowing:
1. Set the rhythm of the interaction. One person is always reacting more than the other, it’s a frame war. Make her react to you, then you get to the hook point, then she wants to get to know you. But she always gets to know you when she is experiencing YOU. Be at the cause of the vibe of the interaction. She is at the effect. You set the rhythm, you dominate. She is scrambling. She is receiving your influence. It’s like turning wheels.
2. Breaking rapport and short sentences. Commanding and challenging statements. She is forced to react. 3-5 minutes of just making the wheels spin towards her, the energy of the interaction flows from you towards her, she is getting exposed to your energy, she gets hit by your energy, over and over. JAB, JAB, JAB, JAB, JAB, JAB. Direct the energy of the conversation, control it, dominate it.
3. Get close.
4. Being physical. Be overwhelming. Poke her, hug her, spin her, grab her, take actions. No outcome though, do it because you think it’s funny and hot. You enjoy feeling her feminity.

Buyer dynamic
Approach everyone, don’t sell yourself out to only hot chicks .You’re just talking to everyone.
Realize your own worth as a man. You are on the pedestal. Establish that you are the doer. Overwhelm the venue. Talk to everyone.
Best buy frame. Approaching a store to check out the best TV.
This is the frame of mind. The mindset. No need for any qualification lines, canned routines, it’s all about the VIBE.

Hook: Anime eyes and is she staying?

--- SHIFT IN THE INTERACTION ---

VIBING
Now it’s more of a 50/50 contribution of the interaction. Stop setting the rhythm now. Be chill and normal now.
Get to know each other. Vibing is really just talking about whatever you want to talk about.
The drug dealer analogy, give her a first hit of your awesomeness. But sprinkle it out, this keeps her addicted. If you give her everything she will overdose and DIE.
Or just leave out of intimidation or she thinks you’re weird; it’s a sign of insecurity.
Give her the opportunity to talk back.
Give her SPACE to invest in the conversation, make space in the conversation.
What do you do?
Where are you from?
CHODE GAME IS COOL GAME.
It’s not sustainable to keep high octane.
She is a human being. Enjoy talking to her, appreciate the moment. Express, have fun, get out of your head. Have a great time. Stop thinking ahead and just spin the wheels when the vibe slows down too much.
Create a bubble of you and her
Isolate her, build a vibe together.
Turn her away from her friends and facing you. Get the friends out of her sight. Even if they are right behind her, it’s fine.
Then start bouncing around, the bar, dance floor, smoking area, meet your friends, back to her friends.
Different topics.
Role plays/Conspiracies.
- “This is my girlfriend”
- *Whispering about random dude/her guy friend* “He hates me”


Make her invest
The more she is chasing you the more she invests her ego in the conversation.
EMOTIONAL INVESTMENT
- “You can go if you want to”
- “What’s my name?!”
-

Give her THE OPPORTUNITY to chase.

--- HOW TO PROCEED ---
Logistics
- Who are you here with
- What are you doing tomorrow
- Where do you live
(Spread out the questions though)
What time of the night is it?
It’s like a movie.
It starts: 10 PM – Build momentum and unwind.
The movie progresses: People get unstifled and have adventures in the club.
The end of the movie: Climax – Leave the club and fuck.
DO NOT SKIP THE MIDDLE OF THE MOVIE. IT MAKES NO SENSE.

First 2 hours – Don’t count, find what makes you click
They are for ME. Approach, joke around, yell, do whatever to get out of your head.
Getting into social mode. Have fun, get out of the head.

BUILD LEADS – A lot of short interactions.
Mingle with everyone in the club and check for logistics. SCREEN HARDCORE.
Get phone numbers only when the logistics are not in your favor.
Get the number for later in the night and for day2s.
1. Screen for later in the night. If it looks like it can happen:
While you get the phone number:
- “Gimmie your number, we’re hanging out later. When are we hanging out?!”
- “Later”
- “OK. I’m going back to my friends. When are we hanging out?!”
- “Later”
Get the number to meet again. Be full obvious about it.
2. Screen for Day2. If it can happen:
- “Gimmie your number, have coffee with me tomorrow.”
- “What’s my name?!”
- “Are you free tomorrow?”
- “When are we making this happen?”
- “You donät have to if you don’t want to.”
- “What time are we meeting?”

Set up EVERYTHING in the original interaction, not over the phone.
Then text her when she is in front of you.



LAST 2 HOURS – which girl have the potential of me fucking them?
Chose a set, and COMMIT to it.
Stick to it, and do everything to make it happen. Go back to the leads, evaluate logistics, hotness etc.
Make the set long.
Introduce pull: AFTERPARTY
(Introduce day2: HAVE COFFEE WITH ME)
Plant the seed.
Have a drink with me – AFTERPARTY.
Calibrate after the fact!
- Afterparty!
- Blablabla random excuse
Solve the problem
Just keep persisting. Come up with solutions to her objections. No is a test for your ability to creating your own reality.
- Tell your friends we’re going to the bathroom
- Text your friends
- BLAAAAAAAAAAH

Nothing to loose situation. Take the responsibility of the afterparty. Lead her HARD. Give her easy rationales to leave with you. Movie, food, drinks, etc.



DEFAULT TEXT THE NEXT DAY: What are you doing tonight?
Texting is not gaming, gaming is done in person. Text is a bridge to get to meet her again. Minimize texting. Simple and effective. Get her out. Fast.

Start joking when you need to, if she is not receptive.
The go for the day2 again.
If this doesn’t work, then call. Set it up.

DAY2
Meet as close as possible to where you can fuck her.
Your place, her place, close to a dark alley, your car, etc.
Meet, it’s a new open. Hook quickly. Vibe, spinning wheels etc.
Bounce to sex location.
No always means not yet.

[Nystart]

Mkt bra skit i kort text, gillas. Den här ska jag spara!

[TobiasK]

Good shit, kolla mina startade trådar. La upp manifesto videon

[Benson!]

Good shit, kolla mina startade trådar. La upp manifesto videon

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min herres reflektioner på ovanstående? tillägga/basha något må hända