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BY Alexander~ | February 5th, 2009 at 1:24 AM
Deal Breakers
Tags: Self Actualization

Some say that looks don’t matter, and this is pretty accurate. There is one caveat, though. Looks don’t matter only if your game is good.

But, when this sort of advice is dealt out with military authority, it is assumed that you are basically socially calibrated.

That is to say, you don’t kidnap women and hide them in a hole in your basement. You don’t give them the “it rubs the lotion on its skin or else it gets the hose again.”

If you are just taking your first tentative steps out into a bar after reading some http://www.alexattitude.com inner game advice, you need to know the basics. Coaches spend so much time on the deeper and more fascinating issues that we rarely bother to pay attention to the absolute fundamentals that can leave some guys pants down in the bar embarrassed, not delighted.

It must be frustrating as a new guy to open set after set, be relatively ‘normal,’ but get smashed to smithereens by the girls around you. If your reppin’ RSDN and some of these failed interactions are dictated by actual mingers, it can be straight out insulting and demoralizing.

I get a plethora of guys on bootcamp who have seen all of our products, smoked Tyler’s hair rolled up in pages of the Blueprint, and still manage to get blown out. Technically they are perfect, but when they approach, they inject pure disgust into the women they talk to.

Basically, these guys need to clean themselves up.

They take a shower, whiten their teeth and wear some deodorant... and poof, like some kind of wisdom-wizardry, they can all of a sudden get the girls.

It’s a bit of the old ivory tower syndrome; all fountain pen with no gang land experience.

A basic rule of thumb, if you want to get mathematical, is to ensure that you don’t stray more than two standard deviations away from the societal norm.

Pay attention to what’s going on around you and add your own expression to it.
Remember if the way you present your self doesn’t gel with the girls’ reality, you’re simply not going to be wearing the dentist’s apron that night; you shall be giving no fillings.

Elaborated, as awesome as your top hat may be, or as pungent as your cow-hoof earrings are, they just doesn’t have a place at the bar.

So, read Maxim magazine, check out FHM, go to the bar and pay attention. Look in the mirror, if you look too Bollywood or feel Adam’s Familyish, it’s time to change it up.

On a more biological level, there are treatments for almost any kind of puss, mucus, flakes, odours, hairs, parasites or gremlins climbing out of your ears that you may have. have. Though, if you are suffering from ‘baby’ that means you are pregnant, I can’t help you.

If you step to the girl with snow capped shoulders, you could be a rock star and still fritter away any chance you ever had playing flesh darts.

If you have acne, there are hundreds of thorough and safe treatments; some are external and some are internal. Though, this is most easily avoided by not ever touching your dial and ensuring you eat well, consistently. Personally, I used ProActive to go from a Chicago pizza to an aspiring Calvin Klein Model.

If you have body odour, take a fucking shower; soap is a bonus. Using said soap is an added bonus.

If you have fucked up teeth, get yourself fixed up. To be honest, if you don’t have ivory hunters following you around, prodding a rifle up your ass, then you probably have some progress to make. With good teeth comes good breath, but carry around gum anyway. This you can offer to girls as an opener to the tune of, “want some gum?”

All of this is well and good, but remember if your game is super tight, none of this even remotely matters

In summary, the point I’m making is that if your shit isn’t yet good enough transcend body odour, dandruff, seeping body fluids and mythological creatures playing in your hair, some simple drug store times can be the difference between making the wrong impression and getting to split the pink.

Importantly you will disassociate with negative anchors from the past, like a submarine.

**teeth gleam**

Clean times.
Alex~