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BY Alexander~ | May 3rd, 2011 at 2:08 AM
The ULTIMATE Attraction Ammunition - Advanced Theory.
Every time I’m on a bootcamp and we’re just about ready to hit the action in the field I get the timeless pick up question ‘what do I say?’

This is a particularly painful question, but one I know that is important to the students none the less. Depending on where the student is at, I’ll throw him in the deep end, or if he’s really struggling I’ll give him something to get the juices flowing, a nice compromise between competency and comfort zone.

But before you even begin to worry about ‘what do I say?’ I want you to stop and think for a second that this so called concern is much more extreme for a girl who wants to start a conversation with a stranger. I mean, look at you, you’re reading a website about how to talk to girls – you’re much better than you think. Stop making excuses.

For the record, it doesn’t matter what you say, but it does matter that you’re saying something.

For the most part it doesn’t really matter too much what you say, in terms of ‘quality of content’ because as long as you’re a good guy and your beginning to get a feel for the idea that you are enough that fact alone should be enough to lead you to good success.

But if you do want to take things to the next level FAUX PASs are the answer.

When I say next level I mean several things. You will accelerate the rate at which you can attract the girl, you will supercharge the emotional exchange, and be generating tests left right and centre which you can expect to get – then pass – to very clearly demonstrate higher value (DHV).

To use faux pas well you need to have a good strong frame and a decent wit to be able to thinking quickly in the moment and respond with versatility. Even if you don’t have this, give faux pas a try and start stepping up your infield verbal skills.

The things that makes faux pas work is that they more arousing than ‘boring’ and less offensive that ‘distasteful’. They are nice little mechanism to flirt and have fun, to dance on the fine line of crossing social boundaries in a fun way that will have tension and chemistry to the interaction.

For example, topics about ‘what are you drinking’ could be boring, topics about ‘child pornography’ is distasteful. The distasteful stuff is something that newer guys can sometimes slip into to get a surefire reaction, but it’s a reaction for negative reasons.

There is a basic formula to creating faux pas, and I’m sure there are many more than what I’m going to list below, so use your imagination and continue to branch out with your faux pas creativity.

The following faux pas are listed as themes. When I give you themes to think about, rather than deliberate lines you retain your social versatility, rather trying to recite things that are impossible to remember. Themes are ideas that can be bought in as responses, misinterpretations, questions or statements. They should give you some nice ‘high octane’ content, without bogging down your expression and delivery.

So, without further ado here is the list, take it as you please, use what you want and discard what you don’t want. Beneath the list is the way to take the theme from the screen here and put them into pick up benefitting practice.


Pheromones

Jerry Springer

Pornography

Lubricants

Heroin

Philosophies

Transvestites

Douche bags

Hugo Schtiglitz

G-String

Sand in the vagina?

Trust me

Valentine’s day

Kebab’s

Guido

New Year’s resolution

Inhibitions

Ovaries

Gypsies

Chivalry

Bridget Jones

Love actually

Booty call

Haiku

Tiger Woods

Penetration

Conceived

Brazilian

Anal

Beard

Old spice
Cologne

Poetry

Mile high club

Cougars

M’oobs

Affairs

Morning glory

Threesome

Paris Hilton

Pajama party

Marriage

Scientology

Pedo’ bear

Strip clubs

Redneck

Soap opera’s

The prom

Girls gone wild

Cults

Symmetry


Examples; response, misinterpretation, statement, question.

Girl: So what do you do?

You: Run a cult, do you have a hole in your soul?

Girl: Can I ask you a question?!

You: Yes, ‘I do.’ Time to consummate?

You: I am symmetrical, thus attractive.

You: If I were Tiger Woods, would you have an affair with me?

These are all themes that I have used in similar context in field that have worked extremely well for me.
The ideas themselves have usually comes from something I easy thinking about, reading or watching on TV or online that day.

The best way to take these ideas from the screen and take to your interaction is to read over them a couple of times and let them be. Think over some of the ideas that you like the best – and like magic those ideas will reappear at the right times when you’re in set in field.

Like I said, these things are a little bit random, so as soon as you say them expect a test. Remember that beating test is the ultimate skill of this game. Faux Pas is a great way to elicit manageable test thayt you can breeze past and DHV.

PLEASE ADD MORE FAUX PAS IDEAS BELOW!

Then go out and clooooooooooooose

Alexander~
Executive Coach
Australia & Europe