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Pick Up Girls: Real Social Dynamics. Physical Rapport; Cease To Be A Freak, The Fastest Way To Get Girls.
Got a nice little video from Japan here about the idea of Physical Rapport, I’ve also included some pictures of my times in Japan. I had a supreme experience in Japan with the Japan RSD crew, Bombastic 2.0 on the forums is our go to guy there now. It’s a 12 girls a month city, a nice combination of models from Europe, tourists from Australia, and of course, the unique Japanese girls. See some of the Japanese times @ 2.24’ mark in the 2010 video.
On the surface Japanese culture seems to be very introverted. Once you become embedded in the nightlife you realise the people are just as sexual as any other culture on earth. The Japanese cultural experiences lead to me a new idea: Physical Rapport.
The purpose of Physical Rapport is to give the girl the ‘inception’ phenomenon where the girl forms her own idea (impulse/feeling/intention/desire) that she wants to move the interaction forward towards sex with you. This is the fastest way to convert cold approaches into sex (getting the girl). Getting the girl is easiest done once the girl has made her own decision that she wants to hook up with you. Therefore, make this your focus for the most effective way to pick up girls from cold approach.
Tokyo Physical Rapport
Physical-Rapport-style physical interactions with girls during cold approach pickup is a dynamic with intention to draw the girl into the ‘inception’ idea. Beyond this ‘inception’ idea, practising Physical Rapport causes many other deeper understandings of interactions with girls, bring you into congruence with “I am enough” and helps you develop abundance.
Physical Rapport is a component of the Alexander~ RSD Natural Instincts Method (Natural Instincts Method). I make reference to dynamics in that article throughout the explanation of Physical Rapport, if something doesn’t make sense re-read that article. Other principles will be written about in depth later. I’ll add links to articles about ancillary topics if you need deeper explanation. Some of those articles exist but others don’t yet exist and will be empty links that will become active once their respective articles have been posted in the future. If there are any questions or clarifications needed in the meantime please ask in the comments section below. I am obliged to answer.
With Physical Rapport I intend to teach you something new. In introducing these new ideas and repercussions I will continually compare new ideas to socially-conditioned and game-theory conditioned ideas about physical interactions you might have in order to relate to your understanding and contrast methodologies.
Physical Rapport is way of physically interacting with girls form cold approach that creates a frame of anticipation and excitement. The purpose of physical rapport is to create a physically comfortable relationship with the girl in a social space so that she would be comfortable to spend time with you later in an isolated space. It’s controlled and limited physical escalation that leaves the girl wanting more. Physical rapport is a form of physical escalation that allows you interact with many different girls in a social space while not being considered a player. Physical rapport gives you the opportunity to create social abundance discontinue intensive confrontational escalation that might alienate people.
Physical Rapport interaction moves include handshakes, shoulder touching, hand leading, hand games, the claw, hugs, standing in each other’s space and sitting in each other space. That is all you need to have good physical interactions with a girl. You can include other aggressive physical interaction as intermittent physical expressions in the interaction for fun, but not to cause the girl to be attracted to you or give you attention. You will have significantly better interactions if you use a small amount of physicality over a long period of time than an intense amount of physicality in a small amount of time. You can amass more arousal (attraction) with smaller physical arousal over a long period of time than if you use a massive amount of physical arousal that might scare the girl away and end the interaction.
The biggest shift that I want you to get from using physical rapport is to become non-polarising. With aggressive physicality you can easily make girls defensive and scared. With Physical Rapport you never do anything that might cause girls to have a bad reaction to you like running away, thinking you are creepy or becoming defensive.
If you are going to be going out in the same place over and over you want to build long term abundance. With physical rapport you have interactions that either create connection or have potential to create connection later. Due to logistics sometimes you simply can’t get a good conversational connection in a club or bar. If you become aggressive (negative/frustrated/desperate) you can burn potential connections. If you can’t make a connection on the first attempt make the same approach again and again until you get that connection. That way you don’t do anything wrong and there is never a reason to be received negatively by girls.
From a girl’s perspective on your first approach attempt she will think you are just like any other drunk guy trying to get laid and ignore you or blow you off (unless you beat the test formalities and get through the first time). If you don’t react she won’t have any reason to think badly about you. If you do this a couple of times without ever becoming negative (aggressive/frustrated/desperate) and you keep your chill fun vibe regardless of what happens (I am enough frame) she will eventually come around and open up to make the connection.
I’ve literally heard girls say this about my students; “I have spoken to that guy four times, he’s never been weird, he’s calm, he can talk to everyone around here and everyone is cool with him – I’m cool with him, because he never got upset or reactive because of the way I behaved towards him.”
On the other hand if you do use aggressive physicality you can make girls very defensive and evasive towards you. If you were to try to reapproach a girl that you had failed to open with aggressive physicality she would have a strong negative emotional avoidance towards you. The point is, it’s almost impossible to reapproach a girl who you over escalated and freaked out and much better to keep it cool and give it a chance again later.
There are some occasions where aggressive physicality is appropriate; learning, physical expressions, decisive pulling at the end of the night and ‘beastmode’. Using physical rapport is a solid way of interacting with the girls, a of low risk-low loss methodology whereas aggressive physicality is not as solid, more high risk-high loss.