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BY Tyler | May 7th, 2010 at 11:00 PM
How To Make Women Laugh At Your Dumbest Jokes RIGHT NOW (Get Her Attracted To You While STILL Being A Tool....)
Hey there, was saving this for Monday, but hearing rumors about Real Social Dynamics being featured on the front pages of Asylum.com and AOL.com (I'm still in the dark on this -- sounds cool though).

The topic for today: How YOU can get girls to laugh at your dumb jokes, while still being a total tool, and get them attracted to you ANYWAY.

(Take 5 seconds and click on this brand new video right now, the secret will be revealed....)

Anyway this is a very interesting topic for me, because every year I go out regularly and chat up girls, I gain new insights that help me to improve.

My single most helpful insight in 2008 (I always "sort of" got it -- but it REALLY got hammered into my head)...:

The WRONG way that most guys (including YOU I bet) talk to girls...:

1- Say something they think the girl will think is funny.

2- Hope for her to react positively.

3- IF she responds well your confidence goes up, and if she doesn't your game falls apart.

(Basically this is "socially pinging" for the girl to make you feel ENTITLED to be that cool guy she'd be attracted to, instead of being that guy no matter what....)

And then the RIGHT way to talk to girls...:

1- Say something that YOU think is amusing.

2- It pumps YOUR OWN emotional state.

3- By the law of "State Transference" she feels the emotions that YOU feel (about your dumb jokes) and feels attracted to you.

This is incredibly powerful to you because 1) you have a lot more GREAT things to say when it's stuff that YOU like (as opposed to scrambling to think of what she wants to hear), and 2) when there's inevitably a LULL in her reactions to you, your confidence stays high and you carry it through to the "close".

I've also strongly come to believe that in any interaction between yourself and a woman where she's become attracted and thinking of going home with you, the "deciding factor" will be when she WITHDRAWS attraction for a few minutes, and observes how you'll react.

If your confidence stays high and you are indifferent (like you're just having the same fun on your own as if she's there -- you LIKE her but it's all the same to you), then she decides that you're the "real deal".

OTOH if she can see that you need HER to be that fun, cool guy that you're projecting yourself as, then she figures that even though you're entertaining that she still doesn't want to become totally intimate with you on that level.

In my opinion, a guy who has this down REALLY WELL is Alexander~ of Real Social Dynamics. He's definitely BOTH a massive tool, and very self amused.

(Check out this video right now -- it's just a tidbit that Ryan shot on a crappy camera of Alex~ grabbing and making out with a cute French girl -- but as you watch it, imagine whether or not he'd STILL be having fun even if she wasn't there....)

Alright so go out and try this TONIGHT.

Actually RIGHT NOW if there are any women around that you can talk to. Report back with your results.

Have fun!!

Tyler
http://www.rsdhotseat.com

Oh and PS:

To experience a FULL DAY of highly educational, high definition hidden camera "infield footage" that will reveal reality-shattering secrets about EXACTLY how the sorts of things you just read about in this article are done by the most seasoned veterans in the world -- click over to http://www.rsdhotseat.com.)

If for any reason you haven't seen this video yet, you NEED to see it. If you've seen it and haven't internalized it yet, I recommend you watch it again.