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BY Ozzie | August 9th, 2010 at 6:07 PM
I Know That I Know
I Know That I Know

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In This Article
- Sources of motivation
- Tapping into unknown resources we have
- Listening to our inner “no bullshit” radar
- Intuition and Pick up
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It is somewhat odd to see some of my students to start to do well after being rejected for 2 solid hours in their first night of BC without anything I can do about it. They start doing well. When I inquire they answer, “I don’t know. Everything started to fall into place. I suddenly just knew what I needed to do.”

Crisis management

Many people say the same thing after a life crisis that shook the bejesus out of their emotional core.

- A freak accident. Like having lost a job, a house, or left stranded on a far off place without help. They suddenly knew exactly what they have to do to get out of the emotional pit hole.
- Starting a business venture. Guys that have been terminated from their jobs and start a successful business after being emotionally destroyed for a while. All of a sudden they start having “new” ideas for business and they rock at it.

The Story

I remember years ago in Greece (RSD retreat) when we were left stranded in an island in Greece due to a tour agent fuck up. We were transported by boat to a “nature” resort in a small island with a “taxi” boat service that only transported people twice a day. It was night and we couldn’t go to shore until next day. It was horrible because there was no electricity, we had to sleep on the floor, etc. But we wanted to party and go to clubs. There was no party in a 5 mile radius. We were so desperate and disappointed we started laughing hysterically.

Enter Papa.

He said, “We are not staying here. This is unacceptable." And got into gear.

Papa started calling various people on the phone like a madman. He had no cell cover so he had to climb a rock and call from there while all of us sat down with our suitcases and laptops resigned to our fate. Papa called everybody possible while we all gave up. He never gave up. He got the water “taxi” to do an extra trip back to shore. Once in shore, he called a taxi from mainland in Ios Island to pick us up and take us back to the mainland. Then we had no room in Ios town. He got a room for us at half price the next day in a shore line hotel in Ios -- thanks to a contact provided by a girl I had banged in Mykonos. Amazing. It was by far the best Holiday I ever had. It had everything: sex, adventure, relaxation, friendship, etc.

The crisis prompted all this.

Tapping Into the Inner Resources

Extrasensory information

I know it sounds like a case of the X-Files but it is not. Most of these ideas come from somewhere inside your deep self but outside your rational mind.

You must train yourself to listen.

1) The inner wisdom. Most guys are not in the habit of listening to their deep self, the so-called inner wisdom that has nothing to do with logic. We are trained over and over to listen to logic by our schooling system. Our intuitive system is not trained by our school; it is actually shut down by it.

2) Take initiative. Repeating information that you hear by a teacher seems to be the norm. It subtly trains you to do what others say instead of listening to your own inner voice. We are trained to discard all kinds of initiative coming from our core.

3) In the field. I want students to start taking initiative on the second night of BC. They must start thinking for themselves in the middle of a crowded venue. So they must turn around and pick and approach the first set that scared them the most at once! Fear is their guide.

Pick up and intuition

It is not unusual for a guy to do the toughest set in a club and get the girl. Why? Because he had to tap into resources that he didn’t know he had. He kind of had to step up to the challenge. Once they listen to that inner intuition, they take more risks in the field. The more risks they take the better results they get.

Other times a girl tests the guy hard all night. She forces him to reach deep inside for that intuition and come up with creative solutions. It is not coincidence he gets the lay.

COACH INSIGHT
I remember one time years ago after running routines and openers for 4 hours (newbie mission) I was exhausted. I wanted to go home. I had only failure all night. Even fatties were dissing me. I got so outcome-oriented that I couldn’t hook a single set. I sat down on the sidewalk, destroyed. Everywhere I saw people having more fun than me. I looked up to a bar and through the glass I saw 2 girls. I said, “one last set”. I went in, blew it open and 2 hours later I was banging the hotter one in her own living room while the other one listened from her room. In retrospect, I should have gone for the threesome.

Tapping into your deeper self

The little voice inside your head that tells you when something feels right or you are just off your internal compass treading on water. You have to train and retrain yourself to listen to that core sense of destiny, intuition, etc. Or whatever you want to call it.

Remember:
Lots of guys fall prey to acting according to pick up community rules or acting as if they have to prove they are good. Of course it all conspires against them in the field. The moments you had great success was when you were inspired by something inside.

Steps to success
- Do you often do things that feel right to you, not just for others?
- Are you listening to your fears in the field while talking to women or do you take initiative?
- Do you talk to her when you should be kissing her?
- Do you avoid talking about relevant information about yourself in favor of “cooler” stuff?