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BY Ozzie | August 30th, 2010 at 4:01 PM
Ozzie's HARSH "Top 10 Reasons To Get Physical NOW"


Life and Pick up

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In This Article
- Distractions in the game
- Fun and the game
- The zero logic approach to Pick up
- Getting physical and verbal game
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I had as much fun as frustration when I wrote “The Physical Game Book”(Coming out September 1st)! I realized it all was more fun in the end. I can’t help but look back and write it all off as an interesting journey. Every day was different. I would not know whether I would produce a Chapter or spend the day staring at a blank computer screen. However, despite it all, you can’t say it was boring. It was fun!

Life is what happens to you

“Life is what happens to you when you are busy doing other things” or something. John Lennon said that a long time ago and when I first heard this I thought he was full of crap.

Today I have a newfound respect for John Lennon and his hippie days after I see myself deluding in a myriad of meaningless tasks and find myself needing to focus on the important, rather than the urgent. Plans for the future seem so futile when reality strikes you with all kinds of urgencies. We all feel we are not doing enough or the required with our lives. We feel time slipping by without fulfilling our goals etc.

COACH INSIGHT
As I coach guys, I realize that most guys don’t need to do a lot of stuff; they just have to take some action. Taking some real action over a period of time will solve most of their questions without even the need to answer. It is very common that half way thru BC most questions have already been answered not by me but by the different actions taken in the field. Game is simplified to its basic foundations of seeing a girl, approaching her and taking it from there.

Getting laid is what happens to you when you are busy having fun

If you look at the times when you get laid, there is one common denominator: fun. The girl was having fun, you were having fun, and, as a result, your dick finds its way into her pants. One thing led to another, everything seems to fall into place: logistics, her friends’ approval, etc., and you went home together. It was almost meant to be. If you pay closer attention, you will notice there was not much of an effort and it all flowed somehow with the usual bumps in the road like pulling her out of the club, maybe a bit of resistance when kiss closing, etc.

I would go as far as saying that if you were not in a good mood, having fun, totally in the moment the chances of getting laid would have been reduced to almost zero. No fun, starting the conversation breaks down. No fun, you can’t maintain an interaction based on logical conversation. No fun, you can’t drag her away from her friends anywhere because it is obvious she will not enjoy it wherever you are going together....etc.

Remember:
The whole system breaks when the one obvious thing that glues it together breaks. Fun, enjoyment, happiness, good mood, state, good vibe, high energy, etc. Whatever you want to call it.

Working and fun

I force myself when I am in the field not to look at it as a job. If I look at it as a job to coach guys, I inevitably fall into logical state, repetition and boredom sets in, and my program goes to shit. I aim to have a party in the field with the guys. I jump up and down like a maniac. I make stupid remarks. I shake my ass to girls. I goof around. I high-five people for no reason....it has to be fun. Same as getting laid, a good program is the result of how much fun I had doing it. It reflects on the students.

Once physical you won’t go back

If you are not getting physical with a girl, you are not having real fun. Unless you are spinning girls, holding them, hugging them you won’t enjoy everything this game has to offer.

Every time I teach physical game, I realize guys are having so much fun with it that they don’t rely on verbal game ever again to create attraction. They enjoy it so much they can’t get enough of it. They actually STOP talking. They let their physical moves do the talking. They realize how much easier it is to carry an interaction sprinkled with physicality than to talk their ass off forever. You can get interactions going longer and faster if you apply all THE PHYSICAL GAME moves.

Zero Logic

Every time you bore people or you bore yourself, you must check for logic in your conversation. Logic will kill an otherwise fun interaction. Going into the interview mode of “questions and answers” will do that to you. For every question you make, produce 5 affirmative sentences in your dialogues with girls. i have made a habit of turning all my questions into affirmative sentences by using “i am guessing here...” “I think that....” “I want you to...” instead of “do you think..?” “do you want?” etc.

Remember:
Make a commitment to stop logic when you are in the field. Make a deal with your wing to give him 10 dollars every time you start a conversation with a background of logic behind it -- talking game in the field is logic-related. You will make your wing rich. You will be forced to have fun.

Steps to success
- If you are not having fun in the field for lack of results, does this “no fun” mentality affect/improve your game? What can you do about it?
- How hard would it be to make a commitment to fun instead of outcome? Wouldn’t you rather have both?
- How physical are you with girls? Do you wait for signals from her or do you create such signals with your physicality? What would it mean to you to get physical without signals?
- Can you think of fun stories to share with your wing while you are in field? How can you improve the general vibe you bring into your sets?