Hur är denna killes beteende? Chill?

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Jag anser att aspergers har blivit så sjukt överdiagnostiserat i dagens samhälle så det är komiskt.

blyg och tyst kille = "han har asperger!!"

någon som är väldigt smart och fokuserad på sina egna intressen = "asperger!!!"

Nuförtiden säger folk asperger åt allt möjligt, det är ett nytt fenomen som märks mest i western society,

Det ironiska är att folk skyller på andra med dålig social skill och asperger när de själva har ännu sämre social skill. Då någon med bra social skill förstår vad som är känsligt att säga och hittar inte på diagnoser åt folk utan att vara en legit doktor.

Ang social skill förövrigt anser jag att det handlar om att skapa starkare band med folk, vänskaper, och kunna relatera. Inte att vara en arrogant "alfahane" som överröstar alla för att ta plats vilket PUA communityt kallar "karismatisk" och "social skills" .

Några citat från ett annat forum som jag anser har en viss poäng:

Notice no one is over-diagnosing women with histrionic or borderline personalities. Yet every man who isnt popular must be an Aspie. It is mostly anti-man propaganda by armchair psychologists.

I have been wondering the same thing about Aspergers’s syndrome. When I was growing up, no such diagnosis existed, but now I hear about a lot of boys being diagnosed with it. And then you have the other diagnosis allowing psychiatrists to give dangerous drugs like Ritalin to boys who are hyperactive. In my opinion, psychiatry is a pseudo-science, in league with the drug companies, and driven by the profit motive. Anyone who doesn’t fit into the dysfunctional society will be labeled and drugged.

Almost all the diagnosis of children as austistic (the overwhelming number of children diagnosed as autistic are male) are being diagnosed by women.

In our society, boys are being feminized because women have almost exclusive access to them. For example, my mom works in a school. At her elementary schools, THERE IS NOT A SINGLE MALE TEACHER. From grade 1 through grade 7 they will only ever know female teachers. Also, because of divorce and divorce laws that are sexist against men, many boys grow up without a father in their life.

Way too many boys are being raised entirely by women. And when women raise boys, they will try to raise them in a feminine way. Boys who don't fit into the feminine mold are subject to discipline, or worse, labels as being mentally ill.

I am an Old School Crank when it comes to all of the new diseases that everyone is miraculously diagnosed with. Give something a name and you give the person an excuse and you give the Doctor an income stream.
When I was a child, we did not have Autism and Asperger's and Dyslexia.
We had the mentally disturbed, the shy, the geeky, the retarded and the introverted. All of these diseases arose when women began to define what 'normal' was for boys.

We assume there is something wrong with them; we never imagine there is something wrong with the people around them.

The fact is that America, Canada, and other Western nations are brutal places for people who actually have very high advanced social skills. This is because people with good social skills treat other people with respect, while the majority of people (who have poor social skills) view such a person is nice, which in the West means weak, wussy, p***y whooped, gay, ect. Worse yet, many of the people who actually have high social functioning don't fit in and are labelled as misfits, and some are probably being labelled as autistic.

I remember in high school there was a Filipina girl who came in grade 11. She had no friends. She was sweet, humble, caring - a typical filipina. But she just didn't fit in with the slutty, arrogant, entitled bitches all around her. So even though she had very good emotional intelligence, she didn't have any friends. And sooner or later, some quack psychologist would probably have been telling her that there is something wrong with her.