"We men are seller and women are the buyer"

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Snubblade över en PDF som jag hade i datorn som handlar om social dynamiken mellan kvinnor och män och när det gäller sex biten.

In our culture, however, sex is not treated as an equal value exchange. Both men and women accept that sex is a transaction where women are the buyers and hold all the sexual capital. Even though both parties are getting the same thing, it’s accepted that women are giving some- thing to men and that men are taking something from women. Society also accepts that men are the sellers and can only get access to sexual capital from successfully selling to women, just like a salesman earns his capital from selling to a client. A man can either get sexual cap- ital from selling his services to multiple clients, or he can form an exclusive contract with one client in exchange for consistent access to her sexual capital.

The sexual marketplace, like all markets, is a buyer’s market. Women, like all buyers, have a buyer’s mentality when it comes to sex. They look for reasons not to buy as opposed to looking for reasons to buy. They know they have something of value, but they have limited funds before becoming a slut, so most want to buy wisely. They want to keep their numbers down and the quality of men high.

As we covered in Chapter 1, we as men are sexual salesmen. Many people wrongly assume that women sell sex, not true: women dress up to entice men to sell sex to them. Men sell sex to women by meeting their sexual market value standards and handling their objections. A man’s product is himaself and his salesmanship is his game. Men use game to obtain and retain women within their league.
Selling is a game where the deck is stacked against you, but you cannot sell successfully with- out playing the game. If you could, you wouldn’t be reading this book right now. In the sexual marketplace, like every marketplace, you can either play or be played. To sell successfully you need to internalize these seven key mentalities.

your power as a salesman comes from your confidence in your product, which you must know how to project regardless of the situation. Girls, like clients, only want to buy from winners. If they smell loser on you it’s over.

In the sexual marketplace, girls are your clients. To get them to buy your sexual services you need to treat them like you would treat a client in business.

Män är och bör komma från en "Seller frame" och kvinnor kommer från en "Buyer frame"? Hur hänger detta ihop med high status då om man nu ska vara en seller? Aja min engelska är fuckup.