"Fuck yes!" or "No"

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Läste precis denna artikel av Mark Manson: http://markmanson.net/fuck-yes

Tyckte denna var jäkligt intressant faktiskt, next level of non-needyness. Men frågan är: hur långt bör man ta non-needyness? Ad infinitum? Eller missar man massa opportunities pga man blir för passiv?

[“She said she’s not interested, but she still flirts with me, so what do I need to do to get her?”
“Well, I know she likes me, but she didn’t call me back last weekend, what should I do?”
“He treats me well when he’s around, but he’s hardly around. What does that mean?”

Most dating advice exists to “solve” this grey area for people. Say this line. Text her this. Call him this many times. Wear that.

If you’re in the grey area to begin with, you’ve already lost.

What does that say about you? That you believe you need to convince people to be with you? You wouldn’t buy a dog that bites you all the time. And you wouldn’t be friends with someone who regularly ditches you. You wouldn’t work a job that doesn’t pay you. Then why the hell are you trying to make a girlfriend out of a woman who doesn’t want to date you? Where’s your self-respect?

Want to date that woman you met last weekend but she keeps ignoring your texts and calls? Not sure what to say or do, especially since she seemed so happy to go out with you when you initially met her? Well, my friend, this is obviously not a “Fuck Yes.” Therefore, it is a “No.” Delete her number and move on.]

That is, flake:igt beteende = hejdå direkt

När jag tänker efter själv så har mer eller mindre alla (med några få undantag) tjejer jag träffat (allt från första date till kk eller förhållande) varit sådana där jag märkt instantly att hon gillar mig, inga spel eller liknande utan det är smooth sailing hela vägen i mål. Av de som trilskats och flake:at som jag sedan lyckats träffa har det väldigt sällan lett till något ändå... antingen jag som är sopig när det kommer till såna situationer eller så känner dom flesta igen sig i detta?

What do you way fellas?