RSD Alex - Natural Instincts method

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The Natural Instinct Method

~ I am Enough. ~

- The true indication of interest (IOI) in natural game is when the girl gives you a ‘quiet and attentive’ reaction.

- Aim to be arousing, not attractive.

1. Create Initiative (Talk A Lot)

· Express a full range of emotions. You are arouse others by contrasting different emotions against each other.

· By expressing what you like, and expressing your personal boundaries you will naturally expressing a full range of emotions and be infinitely arousing.

· A good way to practise expressing a full range of emotions is to use words like ‘hate’ and ‘love’.

· Be impulsive, spontaneous, creative and unpredictable.

· Use a balanced combination of questions and statements, over time this will become natural.

· Too many nice emotions makes you a nice guy, too many negative emotions makes you an asshole. A combination makes you positive assertive, a nice guy with personal boundaries or an ALPHA MALE.

· Use ideas like plotlines, stories, cold reads and misinterpretations to facilitate expression.

· It’s much better to make verbal mistakes and be natural, than to be verbally perfect and unnatural. JUST TALK, work with what you’ve already said, don’t plan what you are about to say.

2. It’s Not What You Do, It’s What You Deal With – That Creates Good Interactions (Endure Tests)

· Its impossible to impress someone with what you say, you can only make an impression if you don’t let yourself get socially ‘pushed around’

· The true Demonstration of Higher Value (DHV) in natural game is when you endure/beat/pass a test.

· Cool people don’t demonstrate how cool they are, it becomes apparent over time – tangibly by beating tests.

· Enduring testing social situations gives the set a longer lifetime, the longer the set, the more arousal you give the girl, the better the result.

· Some basic example responses of ways to beat social tests:

o ‘Irrelevant’ (Credit Jeffy)

o ‘By that you mean something else’

o ‘I love you’

o ‘Relax’

o ‘Its all good/its fine’

o Ignore and keep talking

· Any time you endure a new social pressure or test (either a new success or a more intense embarrassment) you grow. Besting testing situations are the key to personal growth and self actualisation.

· If you fail four tests in a row and you are still being told to go-away or fuck off, then it’s time to move on, but it’s within social norms to persist up to four times and it be ok.

· There are both positive and negative tests, keep going when situations look negative and keep going even if things become uncomfortably positive. The longer the set the deeper the connection with the girl (or friend) and the better the pick up result.

· Each time you beat a test you expand you reality and become more comfortable in a wider range of situations, being more comfortable means more personal relaxation and more influence of arousal onto others.

· Beating tests are the tangible actions to personal transformation. Exactly like working out in a gym, endure stress in on instance to become stronger in the next.

· BE UNAPOLOGETIC – you are not doing anything morally or socially wrong, so don’t be in any way sorry for anything you do. Unapologetic is the key to becoming ‘cool’

3. It Doesn’t Matter Which Moves You Make, It Just Matters That You Are Making Moves. (Physically Escalate)

· Physical interaction is arousing

· Physicality will generate tests which you can beat and DHV

· Use a combination of escalation and push, sometimes intensify the physicality, others times let it fall away. All one time of physicality is predictable and therefore not arousing.

· The goal of the interaction is physical rapport, not sex on the floor in the bar, build physical comfort in the interaction so that you will be comfortable enough to spend time together later on a meet up or on the same night.

· Make out’s are not good for the pick up part of the interaction, but they are good for gathering new experiences, save the make outs until escalation can be taken much further.

· Four moves to facilitate smooth escalation are;

o Jewellery inspection

o Shoulder Push

o Brush and Lead

o Neck Kiss

· Bring the girl into your space, don’t invade hers, leading not intimidation.

(4.) Time Is Your Ally.

· Assume that it was take several hours before you have sex with a girl, trust that things will work out better the longer you are in the interaction.

· Follow the two hour rule, no pressure or outcome dependence for the first two hours

· If you are going to consummate an interaction on the first night its most likely going to happen around dawn, so no rush, embrace the moment at hand and let time do the work for you.

· Don’t rush yourself, the night or your girl, if you have it in your mind that ‘you are enough’ the relationship you are building with the person you have approached will naturally strengthen with time.