Winning beats the game

[Evilvalle]

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The seduction community has been around for ten or so years, and in that time, there has been countless advice, methods, and techniques on how to attain women. Now, here we are today, and no one really seems to know what attracts women. There are very attractive guys that can’t get women, there are guys who know every technique in the book who can’t get women, there are guys with money who can’t get women, there are very social guys who can’t get women, and yes, there are even alpha males who can’t get women.

When you really sit down and look at it, there doesn’t seem to be anything that universally gets women. Oh sure, there are guys who just approach until they get lucky, sure, there are techniques that will slightly improve your percentages, and sure, there are a few other things that can get you attention from women, such as improving your looks, social status, or income. However, playing the numbers game hardly qualifies as having “game,” and that other stuff doesn’t really matter if it is only slightly improving your luck with women. And I don’t need to tell you guys this, as I am sure you have tried and maybe even succeeded in improving your looks, social status, or income, only to see very little improvement with women. If that wasn’t the case, then you probably wouldn’t still be consuming various gaming advice.


If all of that stuff hardly works, then what exactly can you realistically do to completely change your luck with women? And I want to emphasize “realistically,” as the chances of you achieving a supermodel face and body, getting rich, or becoming some famous celebrity are next to nil. I’m referring to something that the average, everyday guy can realistically do to completely turn his luck around with women. I’ll tell you what you can do: you can start winning. That is the one thing that every guy can do to completely turn his luck around with women.

And I’m not just saying it to say it. I’m speaking from personal experience with myself and every other guy I’ve seen be successful with women. What personal experience do I speak of? If you’re familiar with me, then you know that I use to run my mouth about how I went from sleeping with no new women, to having women constantly falling into my lap. And this wasn’t something that was consistent. I had periods when I effortlessly got a ton of women, and periods when I got almost no women, even after I had the looks and a vast knowledge about “game.”

Did I go from getting no women, to a lot of women because of looks? Let’s be honest, no man’s looks are going to change that dramatically in a matter of months. Was it because of game? Seeing that I was just winging it and had no clue about game at the time, it’s not like I took some magic pill and gained a great knowledge of game in such a short period of time. Then what happened? I started winning; I felt like a winner. That was it and nothing more.

You see, once you start winning in life and feeling like a winner, your whole attitude changes. All of a sudden, women are insignificant. You’re bolder, you say things you wouldn’t normally say, you do things you wouldn’t normally do, the things women say and do don’t affect you, the people around you don’t affect you, you start acting from what’s going on internally and not by what you think you should do, and so on. Once you start winning, it’s as if you have something extra flowing through your blood that completely changes who you are and how you deal with women. Call it subconscious confidence if you will. You feel it, women notice it, and they start throwing themselves at you.

Some of you may be thinking that this is the same as all of that “state” crap that you’ve been fed. Not so fast. I know what “state” is, and when I wasn’t winning in life, no matter how hard I had tried, and no matter how much technical knowledge of ”game” that I had, I just could not be anywhere near as successful with women as I was when I actually felt and knew that I was a winning at life. This explains why no matter how much game knowledge guys gain, and no matter how much they pump up their ”state”, they continue to do horribly with women, experiencing very little success at best, or having to resort to a pure numbers game.

Now onto what you want to know: How exactly does one start winning to achieve this subconscious confidence I speak of that will radiate through everything that you do and say? It depends on the guy. For me, once I had amassed a huge social circle, I felt like God and like I could get away with anything. However, for other guys, they have a lot of friends and still feel unsuccessful in life; like losers. For some guys it may be as simple as improving their appearances. However, I’ve met guys who were tall and looked like perfect all-American guys, and they still did horribly with women because they felt like losers. What I’m getting at, is that to be a winner, you have to find out what it is that will give you so much joy and happiness that women will become insignificant to you. Find out what that is and achieve it, and it will completely change who you are and how you deal with women. That is the secret to becoming a natural.

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This explains why you will sometimes see very short guys, ugly guys, poor guys, etc. with hot women. It’s not because of teachable game. It’s because these guys have found success through other means that makes them feel like they are winners, thus causing them to devalue the worth of women on an internal level, and it completely changes how they deal with them. It’s not because of game, looks, money, state, being alpha, or anything else. I’ve seen guys with any of the above still struggle with women. The average, everyday men who are successful with women, are so because they feel like winners, and it is reflected in their interactions with women. If in the back of your mind, you feel like a loser, then nothing you do will make you successful with women short of achieving something that is completely unrealistic (being super rich, super handsome, etc.).