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BY Brad- | April 20th, 2009 at 2:38 PM
How a Good Wingman Can DRASTICALLY Increase Your Chances of Success in the Nightclub

There are many advantages to having a tight relationship with your wing when out meeting women. It can really increase your overall consistency, and just makes the adventure more enjoyable.
There are a couple important factors to consider when choosing your wing, but one far exceeds the rest.

1. Altruism
You want to have the type of relationship with your wing where if you “take one for the team” and maybe sacrifice getting laid one night for him, you know he will return the favor down the road.
There have been plenty of times where I ended up making out with a complete warpig to get my friend laid. Other times it was just helping out with logistics and talking with some random guy so he can get a girl’s phone number.
But I know he will return the favor, and has many times.
If not, it’s time to find a new wing. Trust is a big factor when you are out. You don’t want to worry about him secretly shadow lording, or stealing your girls. You want all your faculties on pushing things forward with the girl you are talking to.
So let’s get into some tactical concepts for how to wing properly.
2. Isolation
The only goal when in the field with your wing is to get you or him and the girl isolated.
That’s it.
Too often I see two guys talking with two girls, and it’s just like this weird conversation where everyone is trying to chime in. Ultimately one guy is going to be more dominant, and it’s hard to keep it 50/50.
3. No crossing streams
So as quickly as possible, just start keying in on your target and move in a way so you and the girl have a little distance from your wing and his girl. It doesn’t have to be some big venue change, just get their backs turned.
Girls are totally malleable, all it takes is to start moving away from your wing to the point where you get the girls turned with their backs to one another. Here you are now in isolation. She doesn’t have the social pressure of seeing her friend watch her. You can escalate in this situation.
Also NEVER go two on one with a girl. You both can’t be talking to her at the same time, so if there are two guys on one girl, one of the guys is going to be just standing there.
Not only does this lower his value, just standing around choding… It lowers your value also because you are in some way associated with him as friends.
4. The accomplishment intro
Bringing back the old school, this technique still works great when bringing a wing into your set.
When your wing comes into your conversation, don’t ignore him. Fully turn to him and greet him. You don’t want to just turn, say hi, and go back to the girl. You’ve known your wing for a long time, and you just met this girl, so give him your attention.
If you don’t, on some level she will subconsciously realize that you value her and the interaction more than your own friend. Which is NEEDY!
So, turn to your friend, talk to him for a bit, then introduce him to the girls you are talking to.
My fave: “Hey, this is my friend Casey. He only dates models and has a big dick.”
It’s obvious that we are joking around, which shows neither of us care too much about the girls and are just having fun together. Self amusement.
It also gets the girls wondering if maybe he is well hung and only dates beautiful women, so there are multiple positives.
Similar to the accomplishment intro, it is very powerful to open sets for your wing. It’s great because you can say all the things that your wing isn’t able to. Here’s an example:
“You know what, you would be perfect for my friend. You are totally his type, come meet him. He’s really successful and the BOSS in his home town. Come with me.”
The cool thing is that if you go up to a girl and are approaching for your friend, you shouldn’t have as much approach anxiety because if she says no, she is rejecting your friend and not you.
The best part about this is that when you bring the girl over to your wing, the attraction is FULLY taken care of. Your wing can just chill back and create that vacuum to get the girl investing HEAVILY.
And what does anyone want from an investment? A return.
5. Rock Honors
Another spin on this technique is the “Rock Honors” approach, developed by the RSD crew in Austin, Texas.
I was exposed to the Rock Honors system when I was down in Austin, TX running a bootcamp with Nathan. That Sunday I went out with Tom! and Alex! Unbeknownst to me, they decided it was my Rock Honors night.
I had 3 guys going up to any girl, approaching, and then sending them on to me. Girl after girl, after a while it got to the point where I was just throwing girls around, getting makeouts left and right. I had girls asking if I was a celebrity or something.
It ended up with me running out of the club, heading to some girls apartment. Great Sunday night, and another successful rock honors. You can do this any given night with your friends and just return the favor down the line.
6. The Jurassic Park
Another wing tactic that has only been field-tested a few times is the Jurassic park, developed by none other than Alex~ himself.
It’s pretty advanced and involves having you and two other wings finding a group of three girls. All at once you each approach one of the three girls. Immediately you isolate her to another area of the club, while your wings do the same in opposite directions. Just like raptors preying on unsuspecting victims, the girl gets confused and when she turns around her friends are nowhere to be seen because they are all on the other side of the club. Again, self-amusement at it’s finest.
Go out and have fun with these techniques and cultivate a solid relationship with your wing. It will dramatically increase your chances of success.