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BY Brad- | July 3rd, 2009 at 1:35 PM
Get HUGE returns!!! (How to get the girl to invest.)

I get lots of feedback when I’m out doing demonstrations chatting up girls on program. A lot of clients see what I am doing and ask, “How do you get her to do all the work?!”
It’s what I’ve been all about recently.
I think it stems from the phase I went through a while back where I was getting resistance all the time when it came to the finals stages before we’d hook up.
At the time, it was probably some sort of lack of experience with a lot of girls, and a failure to lead, which I’ve talked about in “How to lead the girl from the bar to the bedroom.” but also, I’ve tweaked my game in a way to almost completely expunge any instance of the girl being able to throw resistance at me.
One measure is through being totally unapologetic in my actions and words, but here what I want to talk about is getting the girl to INVEST.
What does anyone want from an investment?
A return.
So my whole game lately has been to get the girl to invest as much as possible, and then fully pulling away any validation until we get home.
Then she’ll get what she’s got coming… all night long.

So.
How do I do it?
It starts off in the typical RSD direct fashion, where I go in HARD and DIRECT.
“Ay! You’re cute.”
Something to that effect.
I go in hard and FULLY assume attraction. The cool thing is, if you do it right, attraction IS taken care of.
So from there, it’s like a fucking vacuum. Like she just got drawn into a blackhole and there is no way out.
It’s her own attraction that is causing this, and then I amplify it through various measures.
1. Using statements to get her to qualify herself.
What I’ll do is force her to qualify herself through using various statements/cold reads in a way that gets her to respond appropriately.
ME: So… You look like you don’t get out of the house much.
HER: No! I hit up the clubs all the time.
She starts qualifying her self…
Now one of the money lines I’ve been using a lot lately that keeps this going well.
ME: REALLY?!
-it’s accusatory and gets her to continue qualifying her own answer, and continue investing…
2. Open/closed body positioning
Think of the girl and you as a T shape. You are fully open, talking to her, but she is completely sideways.
-Don’t you hate that feeling, where you feel like you are constantly grasping when you talk her?
Well why not create the same effect with the girl. When I go in, I’ll initially not be fully open body language. Then as the conversation progresses, if she says something I like, I’ll open up my body language more, but if she says something I don’t like, I’ll close off more.
It gets her constantly working for your approval/attention. She’s the one grasping, and you get to choose, reinforce, and control the conversation in a way that gets her talking about things you want, and getting her to again invest.

ATTENTION: OLD SKOOL PICKUP MISINTERPRETATION!!!!
Watchout for the old skool technique of the “over the shoulder opener”. I think on a superficial level, it was trying to accomplish the same idea, but it doesn’t need to be that dramatic. No body rocking necessary.
3. Tonality
This tonality thing guy, it is so important. I talked about how it conveys value and all that in the cheat codes article, but it’s great for getting her to invest as well.
Why?
Because using a certain type of tonality causes the other person to respond with an autopilot response.
Think about when a beggar comes up to you and asks for a dollar. How do you respond?
“No.”
It’s usually a quick response with breaking rapport tonality. They came at you trying for rapport, trying to leach value, and it feels icky. So you come back with breaking rapport to get rid of them.
Well the opposite has a similar affect.
If I come at the girl and say “Who are you?!” with strong breaking rapport tonality, how is she going to respond? Usually with a trying for rapport tonality, and heavily qualifying herself.
ME: Hey, what’s your deal?!
HER: Ummm… well I’m actually a nurse, I’ve been studying for 3 years, ummm… I go to school about 10 minutes fro…
ME: (interrupts) NO… why are you HERE?!
HER: Oh… umm….. well, I am just out with some friends and we like to go out on Fridays and umm.. well, I like to dance and umm…
When you come in with the strong accusatory breaking rapport tonality, you get her to respond as written above. Where she is qualifying herself, talking a lot, explaining whatever it is you want her to talk about.
Then, on some subconscious level she goes, “Wow, I’m qualifying myself here, and talking a lot in trying for rapport tonality, I usually only do that with guys I really like, so I must like him!”
4. Using space
A big thing I teach guys when getting physical is to “let it breathe.” The trouble when you really start pushing the physical escalation is that you don’t want to come on too strong, so it’s good to counterbalance cavemanning with smooth chilled out body language and getting the girl leaning into you as well.
Think of an interaction like having 3 spaces where it’s you, space, and the girl. After you reach the hook point, and start escalating your physicality, intermix moments where you just chill back and get her leaning into you. Moving towards you. Chasing you like it’s her last meal.
5. Jealousy plotlines
Obviously getting other girls into you makes her work harder for you. Basically that means just going up and chatting to other girls. She’ll start going into her head and thinking of ways to “win you back”.
I’ve heard that jealousy is the strongest emotion. And I use it in my arsenal of gaming techniques often.
6. Takeaways
Yep, good old takeaways. I’m always running program so I constantly open sets and then have to go run off and find the students.
I usually have at least once a weekend where I get a groupie girl that follows me around the venue, trying to keep talking to me.
It’s hilarious. Talk about investment. I’ll run into them all over the place, and can tell they are just waiting around trying to find me/get my attention,
Full Stalker mode.
Get the girl to invest as much as possible, and then she’ll be HELPING you, not FIGHTING you at the end of the night.