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BY Brad- | November 29th, 2010 at 11:57 AM
How to Set Up the Perfect Date


Originally posted on http://www.BradBranson.com on Sept 16th 2010.

Here is a fail proof guide to setting up the perfect date with ANY girl.

Did you finally get that perfect girl’s phone number, and now you are nervously trying to figure out what the next step is?

Are you wondering how to set up the perfect date that will ultimately lead to MORE, as opposed to another awkward experience to tally up?

Are you afraid to go on another date, just to end with her saying “let’s just be friends”?

I want to give you a gameplan that will give you confidence, and ultimately RESULTS!

The first thing you need to remember is that in any situation where you are trying to get the girl home, logistics are going to be the most important thing.

Your best approach is to find a place near your house, so at the end of the night, you don’t get confused about who’s driving where, how you are going to get there, transportation, or whatever it might be.

Meet at your place, and find a place within walking distance.

This also helps because you don’t want to end up waiting at the meeting spot forever if she is running late.

What I am going to do is outline MY OWN personal date gameplan, which will highlight the necessary things you’ll need to do as well to streamline the approach.

For the date, I chose a little swanky lounge about 2 blocks from my house. It turned out to be pretty cool, but ultimately the only factor was that it was the closest bar to my house.

So I set the date up where she met first at my place.

I’d set it up for “drinks”. Make it around 8:30-9PM so she knows it isn’t a dinner date.

Once she got there, she would call or text and I would tell her to come inside.

Don’t get apologetic,. No, “Hey, can you come in quick? I’m not ready yet.”

Just assume it. “Hey, I’m in 102. I’ll buzz you in.”

Once she is inside, I’ll offer a drink.

Sometimes one drink leads to 2, leads to 3, leads to… us not even leaving my house. Nice cheap date.

But if that isn’t the case, we’ll then head out to the lounge.

When there, it’s just normal chit-chat. You want to sit side-by-side or on an angle. Don’t be across the table -- it is too hard to get physical.

In the conversation, you also don’t want to “proactively give out the resume”. I used to give my whole life story, and what would happen is the girl would slowly come to the conclusion that “This guy is boyfriend material. I have to make him wait so he values me!”

This doesn’t mean being intentionally vague, not answering her questions if she asks something specific about you, just don’t be proactive about telling your whole life story.

Keep it playful and just vibe, she will fill in all those empty details with her “perfect man” and it actually probably makes the experience more visceral for her AND YOU, when you get home.

I usually get 2 drinks a piece, and I’m willing to pay for two drinks, much less of a headache than trying to split it or get her to pay. Just be nonchalant about it and take care of the payment.

During the conversation, at some point I want to seed a reason for why we are going to back to my place afterwards.

What do I use?

Nintendo Wii!!!!!

At some point in the conversation I’ll start talking about how I was OWNing Tiger Woods a few hours ago playing the Wii, and how we should check it out later on. Don’t sell her on it then, just say it in passing and move on in the conversation.

But as I am paying, that is when I’ll say DECISIVELY, “Let’s go play some Wii. It’ll be FUN!”

Don’t even wait for a response, assume it.

Grab her by the hand, and the SECOND you get her out the door, it’s WALLSLAM of GLORY time.

Slam her, gently, against the wall outside and go for the kiss. This way you don’t have to worry about the 1950’s front door style kiss -- you get it out of the way. And for some reason, on a venue change like moving her around, girls are always more open to escalation.

Be sure to break the makeout first, then grab her hand and keep walking like nothing happened.

Keep it playfvul on the walk home, some hipchecks, cutting her off, poking her, keep her out of a logical headspace.

Then once inside, I'll usually make some more drinks, crank on the Wii, which is great because it is competitive and playful, and then ride that playful wave of emotions until you guys are playing on the ground, getting groovy.