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[TobiasK]

Do you feel bad when you beat someone for the front page, number one spot in a google campaign?

Sure you could say there are more emotions involved in a relationship. And I’d agree.

But there are a lot of emotions involved in business, money, and finances as well.

Now, it might sound callous of me to juxtapose a great relationship with a cute girl and a business plan, but…

I’m a nihilist… Haha.

Not truly, but remembering that life is all a dream, and everything is as fake as the next thing. And nothing is right or wrong. Why not make your life AWESOME!

Break the chains, don’t let the weights hold you back.

Whether that be thought patterns, a bad skillset, family, girls, whatever…

Live the life you want to live and PRIORITIZE!

Yes, I don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings, but MY feelings are more important.

Set yourself before others, and ultimately YOU WILL OFFER MORE VALUE TO THE UNIVERSE.

Think if you ultimately do find that amazing girl, have a synergistic relationship, where everything turns out awesome, and you have amazing children!

How does that help expand and evolve humanity/consciousness whatever sort of philanthropic semantics you want to use?

Now picture being stuck with that average “cute” girl. Eck!

Just the negativity of contentment alone that you’d project into the world… It’s a drastic difference.
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Now something along the way that I have noticed is that there is a learning curve.

There is friction when you go through the evolution between getting the “cute” girl and reaching the point where you snatch the stunner with an amazing personality.

There is a learning process, where SHIT IS GONNA BREAK ALONG THE WAY.

I look back at my last serious relationship, and there are certain things I’m ashamed of.

Trying to act like the “cool pimp” because I had this new power, and I thought I was doing things to make her like me more, when I was actually just being a complete dick.

I’ll give an example because it seems like this is going to be a long post anyways, so I’ll forget brevity at this point.

I used to tell my girl that we could only meet once a week. The other days I would go out gaming.

Now we had already been together for over a year, but she knew this, and stuck to it fairly well.

Well one night, she went to a concert and got all over stimulated by her favorite band, and was all bubbly and just wanted to say hi to me at the bar I was at.

She even wore the shirt that I bought her for her birthday. Just so I’d be extra excited to see her.

When she arrived though, without forewarning me, I got pissed because I couldn’t game other girls.

I asked her to leave but she wouldn’t.

She was confused, and started to cry.

I walked her downstairs while she was crying, hailed a cab, threw her in, told the cabbie to take her home, and gave him $10.

I felt like such a pimp.

Fuck, what a dick.

I actually completely forgot about this, being completely enraptured in pickup for 2 years and banging other girls, that I didn’t even remember this event until she brought it up when we were fighting and breaking up.

I felt like shit.

But I needed that experience.

Shitty for her.

But it’s made me a better man.

A better boyfriend.

The type of boyfriend that CAN attract the stunner girl with the awesome personality.
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You talk about going for more one nighters, and I think that is a worthy goal. Part of the process.

But you do not need to focus solely on pulling just because you are feeling bad about breaking up with girls that like you.

Random hookups are good to train you for how to be more casual with the girls you date, so that aspect is good.

But don’t run away from intimacy either, and having the ability to break away as well.

It’s a skillset unto itself, and a good one to have in case of emergency. In case of those times when you meet a girl who sneaks through the back door, sinks her talons in, and really gives you a run for your money.

Certain girls are savvy, and as you’ve been with more girls in general, you are less likely to have this happen, and more able to break it off without emotion, no matter how hard they cry to try and keep you around.
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Wooh! Thanks for taking the journey of breaking up.

I’d like to hear your thoughts and opinions, so comment below or on my blog.