rsd pojke beskriver "natural friend"

[tay]

Ok so i went snowboarding with people and "the natural kid" in grade 11 at our school. Were talking and our friend comments on this text he got, the hb's like "blah blah blah text me later or i'll text u" hes like "k" she responsed with a hour long text message. Throughout the night i realized this kid doesn't give a fuck about ANYTHING. I would ask him a question and he would wait forever to respond or just get side-tracked over nothing. The whole night i was trying to get him to react and shit, it was nuts. I brought up some crazy topics and he barly shows like any care/emotion. Then joking around we were talking about girls and im like making fun of this random that we saw on the bus who was like "i can get any girl i want" he was hitting on a hb and got blown out, meanwhile me and my friends are just fucking around on the bus and the girls keep staring at us.
Hes like heres my "girls 101". Hes like anwser their texts with the absolute shortest response and signifiying that you don't give a shit, then when she strings on like react like: ex =>
HB: hey that was so fun at wherever/whenever
Natural: K
HB: yeah
Natural: wow
Hes like whenever she tries to string on the conversation im just like "wow" calling her out on it, then he doesnt reply. He's like don't ever let her know you like her, act like a dick most of the time, don't ever start the text messaging, and give her the most un emotional shortests texts back, and if they get all emotional just barely respond or if in a text just short responses. If you text them back right away, and they text back 2 hours later don't ever anwser it. Earlier on hes like yo we gotta talk to some girls, the chode guys from before the bus end up talking to a 2 set and im like dude there talking to you girls (trying to get a reaction) hes like w/e. And then i realize he actually doesn't give a shit about anything at ALL. When he talks he comments like this: 60% of the time he doesn't respond (he's in his own world), 25% he gives u some short anser, and 15% he gives you some C&F answer.

O btw this kid gets down with every girl, he f-closed the hotest girl in grade 11 and doesn't even care. She acts so needy now and he gives her these short caveman-like responses. Funny thing is he's like ya i always do that and then they want it even more, so he just keeps doing it and they fall into deeper deeper attraction. He's like "I don't hang out with girls, i just make them want me, then i get with them".

So what you can take away from this is that when your being "unreactive" it is acutally being really reactive, so if you look like your in your own world it will be seen as "Truly Unreactive", also the more you ingore people the low their status gets, and the higher yours is and the more they want to talk to you later on or whenever. Also if you don't care about girls like (good if i have, im still fine w/o) they pick up on it reallly really really fast and it causes crazy attraction.


JohnG says: "Less is more. always."

This kid makes me think to me in some ways. I always get girls telling me I am not talkative, and then they fuck me. Girls usually talk and talk, and I say "wow" or "oh yeah" , "Okayy", sometimes a little "haha", and if they dont talk there are a lot of silences, till she finds something to say. Most communication is through subtext anyway..

Usually a pick-up made by me in a bar or a club goes like this :
1- eye contact 2-smile 3- hi 4- how ar you/wat s ur name 5- she starts talking and I am "wow" or "oh ok" or "yeah", while communicating with subtext (mostly eye contacts) 6-then once she has talked enough and feels qualified, and the sexual tension has raised through eye contacts, we just head home together.

http://www.rsdnation.com/node/140937